‘I was utterly ripe to be devoted’: the fraught business of modern mothering, 2000

‘I was utterly ripe to be devoted’: the fraught business of modern mothering, 2000

People’s experiences were very different, and it wasn’t always easy

In 2000, Nicci Gerrard explored five facets of the fraught, freighted business of modern mothering.

Dorothy’s mother died when she was 11, but it took her five years to accept it. ‘She was this living, pulsating thing inside me.’ Other people’s stories and memories were just confusing: ‘To me, she was just Mum.’ It took her a long time to dare to imagine motherhood herself, but when she had children, ‘I found her again… I can see her. I talk to her.’

Continue reading… People’s experiences were very different, and it wasn’t always easyIn 2000, Nicci Gerrard explored five facets of the fraught, freighted business of modern mothering.Dorothy’s mother died when she was 11, but it took her five years to accept it. ‘She was this living, pulsating thing inside me.’ Other people’s stories and memories were just confusing: ‘To me, she was just Mum.’ It took her a long time to dare to imagine motherhood herself, but when she had children, ‘I found her again… I can see her. I talk to her.’ Continue reading… Parents and parenting, Family, Children, Life and style, Society 

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