My husband loves me but clearly fancies a woman at work. How can I manage my jealousy? | Leading questions

His crush is not an appraisal of you, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. While this woman presents novelty, you have a shared history, a home and a union

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My husband and I work together in a large business. He clearly fancies a woman there – I can tell by how he watches her. He brings her up in conversation and says he feels sorry for her, as her husband doesn’t treat her the way he treats me. She isn’t in a bad marriage at all, it’s just his opinion.

I broached the subject with him as it was upsetting and humiliating me at work. He laughed at the idea and says I’m the only one for him, but I know by how he reacted that he isn’t being honest.

Continue reading… His crush is not an appraisal of you, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. While this woman presents novelty, you have a shared history, a home and a unionFind more Leading questions hereMy husband and I work together in a large business. He clearly fancies a woman there – I can tell by how he watches her. He brings her up in conversation and says he feels sorry for her, as her husband doesn’t treat her the way he treats me. She isn’t in a bad marriage at all, it’s just his opinion.I broached the subject with him as it was upsetting and humiliating me at work. He laughed at the idea and says I’m the only one for him, but I know by how he reacted that he isn’t being honest. Continue reading… Marriage, Life and style, Australian lifestyle, Relationships 

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